Scorpio, let's dive deep.

Happy autumn everyone! As I sit and write to you, I am overwhelmed by how quickly the weather has changed this season. In upstate NY, the leaves have almost completely fallen, leaving mighty tree skeletons dancing and shaking with the cold wind. It is a beautiful time of year. Mother Nature puts on a show, and takes one final bow. The celebration of color and the transition from one season into the next is most beautiful. 

On Monday, October 21st we entered the time of Scorpio, in the astrological calendar.  We will remain here until November 21st 2013. What can be expected on a cosmic and individual level? What can be done to recognize and align with the new energies present? 

Woof. This one is a doozy... 

Chances are, you're probably already noticing a change in your own emotional state. If you haven't, it may be easier to notice others around you. Many people have reached out asking, 

"Does anyone else notice this here? Something's happening but I just can't figure out what it is!" 

As usual, my answer immediately affirms that we all are in this together! This month's changes are exceptionally hard to deny or ignore. 

In astrology, The Scorpio zodiac symbolizes a mysterious soul. It is one who may seem very pleasant and happy, but tends to hide all of their truest feelings and fears deep inside. Scorpio is also referred to as "the deep dark rushing waters," as this sign encourages us to dive deep into the water (symbolic for our emotions) and explore what has been hidden away.  The time of Scorpio embodies this for everyone. Not just those with this zodiac sign.  

With the sun in this part of our calendar, we can expect in the coming weeks to undergo an "internal emotional investigation". Through out your day-to-day," you may notice how quickly something small may annoy or upset you in an extreme sense. Communication between close knit friends and family may stir up frustration. When something personal is addressed, it might feel like hitting a raw nerve, and cause us to respond in the most stubborn manner.  Such is the way of Scorpio. 

The energy presented here is deeply emotional, creative and sexual. Yes. Sexual. But not in the "oh yay pleasure" kind of way. If one is in an intimate relationship, they may question the foundation established with their partner. Feeling "unsupported" and "under appreciated" may be common, allowing us to feel separate from one another instead of united. 

For someone who is not in a relationship, the desire to be in one may become overbearing. This may cause one to question their capability to be im a partnership and question self-worth. "Why doesn't anyone want me?" Loneliness due to lack of communication may be prevalent to all, regardless of your relationship status. 

What we have here, can seem quite overwhelming and negative. However, if you can rise above the emotional fog you will be empowered to overcome each state under the time of Scorpio....... if that is what you choose! 

By allowing all of our "yuck" to rise to the surface, we can explore our truest and deepest sense of self.  Scorpio forces us to look at our unhealthy and deep seeded issues that would normally go unaddressed. That is why we feel like an exposed nerve. When it hurts, it HURTS! 

With less ease of communication now, we can't even reach understanding with other parties. So in turn, we are forced to look within. To revel in our deepest darkest places, and acknowledge them for what they are. 

This presents an opportunity of two choices: "Drama, or Divine."

Some time back, I sat and thought on the word drama. So many people throw it around in reference to everything and anything deemed "annoying". When I reached my conclusive thoughts on this topic I gave it my own definition.  

I have personally defined the word "drama" as "attempting to make your problem someone else's. Or someone else, trying to make their problem yours" .... Take it or leave it. :-P

As the illusion of reality continues to intensify and build, drama seems to become even more recognize able.  By participating in it, we simply allow negativity to permeate ourselves and connecting relationships. This retention of fear will continue to feed the fog of emotional confusion. 

By choosing not to participate, we opt to let it go. Letting go all thoughts, opinions, and judgement regarding the "problem". By recognizing the negative cycle of drama, we can choose to stop feeding it. Such is the way of the Divine.

When you find your mind wandering towards the dramatic, it is helpful and most necessary to recognize the thought, and say "no thank you". "I understand my position, and also yours. I am not trying to change you, or tell you that you are wrong. I love you and understand that these choices you are making are necessary for your journey to becoming a better you. I salute you, but choose to take a separate path." In doing so, all of your personal energy that had been consumed in the negativity can now be free once again. This will alleviate stress and eliminate worry. 

Scorpio has a way of unearthing our deepest untended wounds. Wounds we may not even know we have.  From my school of thought, I believe anything dark, negative, painful (etc) comes from a place of fear. Scorpio addresses these dark secrets, and shows us how to overcome them. So how do we do it?

To align, take note of your daily conversations and thoughts. If they are patterning towards selfishness, stubbornness, and gut reactions, chances are there may be some issues surfacing. If you find yourself at a stalemate with another person, this would be affirmation that indeed, this is one of your personal untended wounds. 

Naturally we want to go all Beastie boys and "FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT!" This should be a red flag! For we cannot change another person and their perception. If we seek change or improvement, we must find a way to change within. This is the way of the Divine, not the Dramatic. 

Look closely, and quietly at what's really getting to you. You may find that the real issue has disguised itself in stubbornness and self preservation. Be vulnerable enough to identify, "what am I truly afraid of here?" Be brave enough to release that fear by trusting that The All holds us lovingly, and the Universe supports us entirely. There is truly nothing to fear. :) 

Once you begin to uncover and discover small pieces of yourself, you can expect a total change in perspective. Scorpio is powerful, passionate and creative. As hard as the lower end of the sign fights to "hold in and hideaway" the higher end fights to "create, love and expand."  After allowing yourself time to heal and let go, you may find your creativity peaking. Your relationships to be rooting deeper. Your sexual passions and partnerships will become grounded and care free. Most importantly, your perception of self will transform. Allowing confidence and love for self and others in place of loneliness and fear. 

I wish each of you a beautiful autumn, while it lasts!  Hold yourself lovingly, and have patience with yourself throughout this astrologic month. 

 I hold space and send love to you on this journey within the next few weeks. I love to hear from you, and offer support whenever someone reaches out. This is the time of sister/brotherhood! I am honored to receive any and all feedback, and humbled to serve you. 

May the Force be with you. 

Betty A. Xo